In a lot of ways, Xpress is exactly what we’ve always been looking for in an adult personals website!
This is a great site with a lot of exciting features, and we’ve really enjoyed our Xpress review. However, numbers-wise it can’t really compete with the big dogs like EroticAds and EstablishedMen. There are also some features that are lacking, and some things that just, in general, could have been better presented on a site like this.
However, we still like Xpress.com a lot, and think that in the future, this could be a GREAT site. We’d be more than happy to come back here once they’ve cleaned it up a bit.
So, why are we so divided on Xpress? Let’s take a closer look at this site and find out.
The Xpress.com Review – How We Decided That Xpress.com Ranked #[POSITION] For Adult Personals Online Dating
During our Xpress comparison, we looked at a lot of things about this site—how easy it was to use, how many girls there were, whether there was an Xpress scam, and how much work it took on our part to get a date.
We’ll say this for the site: the kind of girls that are on this site are the EXACT kind of girls we’re always hoping to meet on an adult personals website every time we sign on.
For lack of a better phrase, they’re basically us, but with boobs. They’re busy, fun-loving girls who like meeting guys, but they don’t want the stress and effort of being in a relationship.
These are the girls you want to hook up with.
Girls who are always looking to get laid are one thing, and we love giving them exactly what they want, but there’s a big difference between the kind of girls who just want to get laid and the kind of girls who just want to date, but don’t have the time.
Personally, we think the second kind is a LOT more fun to hook up with, but that might just be us. Whether you’re into girls who want to get raunchy or girls who are just blowing off some steam, you’ll find some seriously quality women at Xpress.
Our Full Results From Xpress.com Over 3 Months: Was Xpress.com Worth It?
During our time on Xpress, we sent out emails to 450 women, over the course of three months.
We expect to get at least 50 percent of those emails back, on a good and legit website. We did that…but only just barely. We got back 263 emails, which is about 58 percent. Not a GREAT percentage, not like EroticAds (where we got back over 80 percent of our initial emails), but not a bad percentage by any means.
We turned several of those into dates—we set up dates with 11 girls, sent out with eight, and wound up getting laid five times.
Again, these are PRETTY decent results. However, they could definitely have been better. Yes, we got laid, but remember that this is split between five dudes. If we hadn’t been limiting ourselves to one email per day, we probably could have gotten laid a little more, but we wanted to make sure that you guys got the absolute best data.
Our Top 3 Xpress.com Emails That Got Us The Best Results On Xpress.com
Email 1: “Hi, Andrea. I love the fact that you don’t just put up the usual “I’m a Taurus and I like to have fun” on your profile—you actually stand out, and in a really good way. I love the fact that you make your own costumes, too, but I don’t know anything about that. Are there any examples of your work I might know about?”
Email 2: “Hi, Lisa. Wow, I wasn’t at all surprised to find out you’re a gymnast—you look like dynamite in your profile, and your picture, too! You’re probably sick of sports, so could I suggest meeting in the bar at the museum? Or if you’re not sick of sports, at the game on Friday?”
Features That Made Xpress.com Stand Out In A Good Way
A few features that are good on the site.
Want To Get An Edge Over Your Competition On Xpress.com? Try One (Or All) Of Our Favorite Dating Strategies
One thing you need to remember about Xpress.com is that it’s actually a dating site, rather than simply a hookup site. While this doesn’t always make a difference, it definitely does when you look at what women will respond to positively on the site.
One of the BEST ways to get ahead on this site is by making sure you say EXACTLY what you’re here looking for. If you’re looking for a hookup, say you’re looking for a hookup. If you’re looking for a date, say you’re looking for a date, but we’ve found that the women on here have VERY strong B.S. detectors, and will spot a lie a mile away.
The guys who say what they want have the best chance here, hands down. The women on Xpress like a man who’s honest, and you’ll be a lot more likely to get exactly the kind of relationship you’re looking for.
Another thing you can do is contact the girls who say, “I’m just looking for something casual.” It’s not that hard to find the kind of girls who are into low-stress hookups, and by hitting on the right girls, you’re already first in line to hook up with them.
There Were A Few Things We Didn’t Love About Xpress.com…But Only A Few
The girls on Xpress.com are pretty picky. For example, if you say you’re into hookups, don’t expect to hear from many girls who are into long-term dating. This is a big deal for them, and you don’t want to be the asshole who doesn’t listen to what they’re saying.
The other thing we’re not really into is the fact that there ARE a few fake profiles. You’re going to have to learn how to spot these if you’re going to be successful on Xpress. You need to learn how to see whether a girl is a real or fake person from a single email.
The Final Verdict On Our Xpress.com Review: Should You Use Xpress.com For Adult Dating Personals?
We LOVE Xpress…just not as much as we do the other sites on our Top 5. There’s a reason it isn’t as high up as EroticAds, but we do think it’s a decent alternative site if you don’t have other options, and it’s NOT a scam.