Getting Laid Tactic #2: Make a No-Nonsense, Adult Personals Dating Site Profile
There are a lot of tips and tricks about making your profile stand out on an adult dating site.
You’ve probably worried about what to say, how to explain yourself, how much you can cram in, and making sure that the girls you want to hit on know everything you want them to, right?
Stop right now.
You might be surprised to hear this, but it turns out that most of the guys who get the most action don’t talk that much.
It seems kind of counter-intuitive, we know. You want to make sure the girl knows a lot of stuff about you so she knows you’re legit, and you’re worried that people won’t know enough about you to make you stand out from the crowd of other dudes seeking dates.
Hey, argue if you want, but this is what we’ve found in our analysis and comparison of SEVERAL top dating sites. We know what we’re talking about, and these are the methods that get RESULTS.
Here’s what you need to say in your adult personals dating site profile:
Who you are
What you want
What you can provide
If it isn’t one of those three things, it doesn’t need to be on your profile!
Who You Are
Under this section (an “About Me,” basically), you should have an extremely brief summary of yourself and your life.
You can say your name (only your first name), your hobbies (three or four of them), and the things you think are 100% essential for a hookup date to know before you meet her (like if you have one leg or something). If you want, you can also mention your job vaguely (say “I work in finance” rather than “I work in ___ bank”).
That’s it. Nothing else. She doesn’t want to know where you grew up, she doesn’t want to know what your dream career is, and she doesn’t care how many exes or kids you have.
If you want to tell her those things, guess what? That’s a GREAT thing to save for a fifth email, once she’s already gotten interested in the main facets of your profile.
What You Want
You can always say what you’re looking for. That’s a HUGE part of presenting yourself on an adult dating site, and the thing that a lot of guys struggle with. Just say it very simply.
If you want to find someone for casual dating, say exactly that. If you want to find someone to hook up with, say you’re looking for a hookup. If you want to date, hook up, whatever, say that, too. You’re NOT going to get what you want if you pretend you don’t know!
What You Can Provide
If you’re really good at making a woman feel wanted, make sure you put that in your profile. If you think you’re a lot of fun or you’re a great plus one, mention that as well. Whatever you do, make sure you keep it brief and positive.
Keep your language clean and your spelling on point.
You might think it’s weird that you should focus on keeping your language clean during your dating site profile. However, it’s important that you don’t come out with a bunch of swear words and unclean language. Why?
A lot of college girls are going to be reading this.
They’re some of the easiest lays you’ll ever find, and you’ll be shocked at how fast it turns off these girls to see a bunch of mistakes.
It also makes you look really uneducated when you can’t put words together without swearing, or when you put them together with a bunch of really stupid spelling mistakes. And yes, that matters.
The girls on hookup sites are looking for a fantasy. They want a guy who’s cool, cultured, fun to be around, and will make them feel like they’re having a fun night out instead of a gross one-night-stand.
It’s easy to be the guy they’re looking for, and you only need to put a LITTLE effort into profile creation!