Getting Laid Tactic #1: Know What You Want
A lot of guys out there are under the impression that they can’t get what they want on a dating site.
They think that the ONLY way to get laid is by finding a woman, making sure she thinks they’re perfect for her, and then giving her whatever she wants and letting her walk all over them.
This is NOT the case.
You’re in control of your own dating experience! You can have whatever kind of date experience you sign up for. If you put yourself out there like some wishy-washy guy who’ll let women walk all over him, those are the kinds of women you’re going to attract.
If that’s what you’re looking for, fine. You can probably get a woman to go out with you, but we make no guarantees, because our results have actually shown something pretty surprising.
You may think it’s the guy that gives women all the respect in the world and lets them walk all over him that gets the girls. A lot of guys think they have to lay down and take it if they’re going to get laid.
We have data.
Our data is what helps us design the best adult personals dating strategies. We’ve compiled that data, and found out something interesting about what women REALLY want in a date.
SAY WHAT YOU WANT.
No, we don’t mean that you should just say whatever you want and expect women to go running to give it to you. There’s still a lot of respect that has to happen, or you’re only going to get the kind of women who don’t respect themselves, and you don’t want that.
What we’re saying is that we’ve found that the easiest way to get what you want? Shocker here, it’s to say what you want.
If no one knows what you really want, you’re not going to get it. If they do know, you still might not get it, but the point is that your chances are a hell of a lot higher than they would be if you never said anything!
Girls like a guy who’s not afraid to take some chances. In today’s world, actually being firm and decisive about something is one of the biggest chances you can take.
Seriously, women respond well to it!
If you’re honestly just looking for someone to hook up with, say, “I’m really just looking for someone to have some fun, casual sex with. Sorry, but I’m too busy for a relationship right now and I don’t want to lead anyone on.”
You’d be SHOCKED how many girls would rather see that than they would see a guy who says he wants puppies and babies and marriage, when it’s really obvious he’s just in the mood for sex.
Women think honesty is refreshing.
You’re likely to get more girls who are into exactly what you want if you say it’s exactly what you want. This is what the data shows, and it’s what our own personal experience confirms.
Before you go running out yelling about what you want to the whole world, we have to warn you about something:
There is a drawback.
You will get what you want more often if you post it, yes, but you have to accept the fact that some girls are going to be turned off by that. You’re not going to hear back from the same amount of girls as you would if you were more vague about your desires.
However, the ones you DO hear back from are going to be a hell of a lot more eager to get with the program of exactly what you want, so it’s a trade-off, and you have to pick what’s most important to you.
Here’s the most important thing: If a woman is rude to you on a dating site, just ignore her
Ignore her, walk away, close out, don’t make a big deal out of it. Men get banned in a SECOND if they make a big deal out of a woman being rude on a dating site, and all of your money is non-refundable if you’re the one who looks like a jackass online.
Knowing what you want is great, but you have to expect that there are going to be some girls who just aren’t in to what you like, and some of them are going to be rude about it. If a girl doesn’t want what you’re offering, just move on. There are LOTS of other girls out there.