Getting Laid Tactic #9: How to Read Her in Bed
So you have used our reviews to find a girl; now let’s move on to everyone’s favorite part: the actual sex part of your hookup.
If you want to have your girl coming back for more again and again, you’re going to have to be the best sex she’s ever had. If you’re not up to the challenge, then this is going to be a one-time-only hookup.
If you WANT to be the best she’s ever had, it might surprise you to know that you don’t have to be packing the most heat, or have the most experience in bed. It’s basically the same trick that “psychics” use to make gullible people think they’re reading minds: you have to learn to cold-read this girl, and use your knowledge to your advantage.
If you’re going for a full close, it’s extremely important to develop this technique. You want to be able to see exactly what she wants at a glance, so learn to listen and pay attention.
Even if she says she’s down, pay attention to her reactions.
If a woman says she’s really into something but you’re not sure if she’s just saying that or if it’s true, look at her eye movements. If she won’t meet your eyes, she might be embarrassed. That doesn’t necessarily mean that she’ll want you to stop, but it’s not really an indication to keep going the way you’re already going. You might want to stop and ask her if she’s okay, or if she wants to try something else first.
You don’t know this girl, and she doesn’t know you. Make sure you’re on the same page before you start anything.
<h2″>If you’re not paying attention, you won’t be able to tell if she’s down with what you’re doing or not.
We’ve asked dozens of girls that we’ve slept with about the biggest mistakes guys can make in bed. About 80 percent of them said that the biggest mistake that a man could make was not paying attention.
Most of us think women are mysterious. What they want is hard to figure out, and they’re mostly just confusing, right?
According to women, they’re always telling us exactly what they want. We’ve tried out their advice, and it’s actually pretty true most of the time…up to a certain point.
That’s when they don’t think they’re being heard.
If you listen to a woman and you make her feel like you’re listening, she’s going to tell you what she wants loud and clear. Yes, this might require some effort on your part, but that’s worth it for the security of having a regular hookup in the future.
A few quick cheats:
- If she squeezes her thighs together while she’s breathing hard:
- She’s really turned on, take it farther.
- If she gets her hand between you and the place you’re touching her:
- It’s uncomfortable, go somewhere else.
- If she holds her arms close to her body or curls up:
- She’s probably insecure about the way she looks. Offer to turn off the lights or get under the covers.
These are just a few quick examples of our sex tips. Usually, it’s going to be a lot easier than that to tell if she’s into it.
Green means go:
Leaning up to kiss you
Running her hands down your chest
Wrapping her legs around you
Her voice gets lower (women are embarrassed about sounding low during sex, if she’s doing this it means SHE’S NOT FAKING)
Yellow means caution:
Laying there quietly
Going along with what you say
Red means stop:
Shifting away from your touch
Saying “Ow” or “Stop”
If you can figure out her body language and what she REALLY wants to say, she’s going to keep your number in the future—because you’re going to be the best lover she ever had without lifting a finger.